It’s time to do the work that needs to be done

The shock of George Floyd’s horrifying murder (along with so many others recently) has confronted me anew with the systemic racism that underpins every level of this society. Also my complicity in that system as a white woman who benefits from it. The truth is painful. And it cannot be avoided if I am truly a woman committed to awakening, consciousness and love.

Sacred Pause in the Bedroom

I confess that I’m a post-menopausal woman who’s feeling more deeply satisfied sexually than I’ve ever felt in my entire life. It’s even better (way better, frankly) than during my wild polyamorous decade when I had some truly hot lovers and crazy amazing sexapades (there was all that drama but that’s another chapter).

We Were Made For These Times

I’ve read these words from Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes at several critical moments in my life but I’m hearing them now as if for the first time. ” I urge you, ask you, gentle you, to please not spend your spirit dry by bewailing these difficult times. Especially do not lose hope....

Being a Turned On Woman

I was speaking to a woman recently who asked me about my work. After sharing about supporting women to awaken their sacred sensual Shakti energy, she volunteered that she doesn’t feel “turned-on at all anymore.” Then she quickly added that this was “fine with her,” a...

The Dance Of Shakti And Shiva

What does it look like to take this energy that we are generating – this aspect of our Shakti that is our sensuality, our erotic juice, our orgasmic energy – and bring that into partnership? Or, if you are single, what does it look like to take this energy and applying it in the...

Sacred Sex: Learn The Techniques Then Drop Them

When I first heard about Tantric Sex, I thought I’d learn some secret techniques that would shift things in the bedroom from just OK to spiritually ecstatic. I imagined some kind of check list with a step by step formula, that would get me to the gold. I’m a pretty quick study. Enter humility and...

Sensually Leaning Into The Chaos

Let’s breathe deeply and by bringing this life breath into our bodies let us feel grounded and purely here and now. Let us take some time to relax and welcome self to the present moment. Turn to your heart with gratitude and invite that gratitude to fill this moment to overflowing – gratitude to...

Joygasmic: What’s Not To Love?

What is it like to allow the orgasmic energy to move through the body, so that it’s not just concentrated there in the sex center, but opening up that inner channel – creating a pathway? This orasmic energy connects us with feeling into this aspect of us that is both divine and...

Standing in Our Sacred Feminine Body of Love

Dear Beloved, Oh Beloved, what a moment. How is your heart? How’s your body doing metabolizing the anxiousness of the unknown? How is your soul fairing? The election here in the US has rocked so many of us. Events of late left me without words for awhile. Called me into deep listening....

Befriend Your Arousal

One of the ways your Shakti reaches out to say hello is through pleasure. Pleasure tends to be a pretty reliable way to get your attention. Maybe it’s the magenta fragrance of the peony blossoms wafting through the room. Or the warmth of the sunshine spilling through door as you pass by for...

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I invite you to remember that Shakti, your divine feminine life force, is alive and well, in your body, heart and soul. It is my passion to support the awakening of more love on this planet. And that begins with you. May you be blessed, nourished and resourced by what you discover here.

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